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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude
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Victors, Victims, Masters, Servants...a thought exercise
Some people are perceived as victors : consider Olympic gold medalists, victorious over all competitors. Some people are perceived as victims : consider…
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Choose your Reaction to Errors
It is fascinating to watch how people respond to errors at work. Reaction to errors, their own errors and other people's errors, tells you a lot about…
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Criticism, Adrenalin Spikes & Improving Relationships
Some people naturally repulse criticism. These people may show outward signs of their repulsion. These people may not show outward signs, or their repulsion…
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Conflict at our offices: is it a foe or a friend?
Some people complain about the interpersonal damages done by office conflict while others applaud the value office conflicts have injected into innovative…
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What mental-attitude flavour do you choose: Positivity, Negativity, or Indifference?
The Thinking Behind The Tweet The cornerstone of our personality , our mental attitude , shows up as the general flavour of our thoughts...as illustrated in…
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No question about it, people are interested in learning how to kill good ideas
A number of years ago, I posted the following thoughts about how to kill good ideas. It is interesting to see a number of people liked the contrarian…
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Building Self-confidence
A strong desire to achieve promotes self-confidence . Positive self-image and high self-esteem promote self-confidence. Sense of purpose and goals promote…
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Crossing the transition line in a close-knit group
I found myself comparing business success to sports success. I concluded it would definitely fall in the zone of some sort of endurance competition…an…
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Do you choose to pay your bills on time?
You have a choice in business. You can choose to pay your bills on time or you can choose to not pay your bills on time. As a general rule, people who choose…
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Let’s not water down Confidence.
Confidence is a personal thing. There is no reason to design your self-confidence in a way that fits someone else’s viewpoint or rules. Your self-confidence…
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What matters is what you're going to do next.
It doesn't matter what you've done or what you know or even who you know. What matters is what you're going to do next and, of more importance, whether or…
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What Business People Say They Want...and Their Bosses Fail To Deliver
Business people say... I want to understand my role, the contribution I am to make, and how it fits in with team contributions and company success. I want to…
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In support of self-consciousness
In our lexicon self-consciousness has a weakness connotation. We have been conditioned to think of ' self-conscious ' people as timid people, people who…
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How to develop your positive mental attitude
Above and beyond everything else, Courage is the mind state that promotes positive mental attitude. Like every other mind state, with focused and persistent…
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How to make sure your confidence does not threaten your followers.
Some followers are intimidated by Leader's self-confidence . Here are some Spirited suggestions, to help you make sure you do not come across that way: Be…
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The Law of the Barbell: Some people spot, some people lift, and some people just keep adding weights.
Strong people tend to measure their progress: strong people enjoy adding their own weights. No strong person will tolerate people who 'just keep adding…
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Hope and Goals
Hope is a wonderful ‘background mindset’, For example, hope either inspires or opens the mind to accept inspiration. Hope is not a strategy but it is an…
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Mistakes are Stepping Stones – the question is, To Where?
Indiana Jones reminded us that you don’t have to see the whole staircase to take the first step. A journey of a thousand miles always starts with a single…
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Say “Adieu” and then forget.
Forgetfulness plagues us all. At least from time to time, everyone forgets things. We forget things on our shopping lists, we forget the places where things…
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There are 2 types of busy in business
I think there are 2 types of busy in business: 1. There's good-busy 2. There's ?-busy When business people tell me they are 'too-busy' I am uneasy because I…
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Favouring a realistic approach to Values, Virtues & Rules
Values are concepts covering things important and admirable to us (our minds). Values are our perceptions of intrinsically valuable or desirable ways of…
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Trust is a fragile thing.
Controlling biases & refusing to be offended: we have these two ways to reduce/remove the need to feel revenge. When we practice these two ways they become…
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The Best of Bad Attitude
People can be funny creatures. As examples, some people... Never volunteer for new tasks, standing firmly even when the tasks are quick and easy. Refrain…
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10 Thoughts for Firing Good People
Fire when the cost of presence exceeds its value: that's on the self-serving end of things [...and that is one of the ends] Fire when bad habits violate…
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When you get even you become uneven.
Competition is a wonderful thing. And, competition has its limitations. If you (or your ego) approach life as if it's a series of competitive interactions…
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Don't crow when you know...at least, don't always crow when you know.
Some humans cannot help themselves - they have a bad habit - they always crow when they know. When humans crow what they know it tends to be off-putting. It…
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"Attitude is more important than Intelligence"...that's the wrong way to think about Attitude!
Instead of thinking Attitude is in the winner in a competition with Intelligence, understand Attitude is a subset of Intelligence or, better still…
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‘Belief’ brings peace of mind, confidence & success
Have you noticed when you truly believe something will happen you become calmer and have a greater clarity of focus? Have you noticed when you truly believe…
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Thinking Big, without being hairy or audacious
Hairy means covered in hair. Audacious at best means taking surprisingly bold risks and at worst being impudent and disrespectful . It seems some people buy…
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Ready, Willing and Able … What a wonderful combination!
Ready, willing and able… Isn't that a wonderful combination? How sad it is when two of them are there and the third fails to arrive. In particular, how sad…